Wednesday, May 15, 2019

Just One More Trip - But Open for Business Again

Thank you to everyone who has been extra patient waiting for orders placed since April 1st.  I am back up and running and am (almost) caught up with shipping.  I have yet to do the deep dive back through my emails to get all the rest of the custom orders ready to bill or questions answered.

I can tell the hustle and bustle have taken a toil as I just am not up to my usual 10-12 hour workdays and am petering out around 5pm.  One last trip this Friday to the MET for a meeting in the Textile Conservation Department and then I swear I am staying put for a full month!!  Just canceled a trip out to the west coast.  Just can't do it.


Tuesday, April 23, 2019

April?

Those who know me well know I live life on fast forward but I would have to say that even this month has taken me by surprise.  I am currently in the last two hour stretch of 'quiet time' in a hotel in Canada that I will have for the next eight days.  Savoring it as I finally had a full night of sleep on top of it.

Since April 1st the things that have happened.  Oh my.  I have been to six countries on three trips.  Finished two caskets.  Investigated embroidery in the back room of the MFA.  Kayaked through a mangrove tunnel for miles in the pitch black to see glowing bio-luminescent water.  Gazed upon dozens of amazing samplers in a small room in Amsterdam.  Saw a bodybag at Moulen Rouge.  Explored an amazing museum of technical machines looking for something for us.  Ran out of gas talking too long with a friend while she was driving cross country and I was jet lagged.  Snorkeled for hours.  Briefly got back to town and ran a robot scrimmage in front of 15,000 visitors.   Bicycled through tulip fields.  Visited Au Ver a Soie.  And got out of a car in front the moment Norte Dame caught fire and witnessed it all and wept with the French.  (Our apartment faced the South Rose Window).

Only a few in the crowd had noticed the smoke starting.  We turned and walked to a police lady and said "I think Norte Dame is on fire" as the first police car screamed up. 
Wow.  And for me the month is only half done.  I am headed to Detroit with 35,000 kids and robots for the exciting and exhausting week of the World Championship.  Then a few trips to NYC and VT for events thrown in and I can finally sit back on the couch and work.

And in those exciting things - was something privately momentous.  I finished two embroidered caskets!  For me the culmination of over 12 years of research and embroidery.  I can't tell you how thrilled I am with the results and how they look.  And with all the chaos of above, I only have one good picture at the moment and a dozen bad snapshots on my phone.  So I will share the one good picture as a tease.

My first finished Stumpwork Casket - The Harmony with Nature Casket.  An online class for this piece is coming this
fall for new people to the Thistle Threads universe.

Let's hope the next few weeks are only somewhat exciting...

Wednesday, March 6, 2019

Shipping Orders

Well there is a major confluence of events that will be taking me away from my business for the month of April and a bit into May so I will be shutting down all shipping of orders between April 3rd - May 3rd as it will be virtually impossible to do so.

If you have any thread or material needs that you anticipate, especially special order threads - please get the orders in ASAP so I can order them in for you and get them shipped to you.

It's all 'good stuff' and I will be in town for some of it but not able to get to the post office as my time will be wrapped up with conferences, etc.

It wasn't going to be 'that bad' and I was going to be able to juggle things a bit because a had a good stretch between two big things but now I have to somehow squeeze a five day World Robotic Championship in between and four days of driving the robot across the country in there and that just took up all my slack!


Wednesday, February 20, 2019

How Internet Retail Works

I keep saying I am going to write this blog post as a way to dispel the most common misperceptions out there about how companies run their businesses on the internet.  I would say that I answer easily more questions related to this from customers and students than any question regarding embroidery.  So this will form a faster response.
The most often asked questions are:
1) can you add something to my order...
2) can you change the date of my subscription...
3) I forgot my password to X
4) My password doesn't work in X
5) I don't like using the internet - can you just charge my card, the last one I used on your shop?
6) Please use a different email address for my post office notices
Industrial designers know that  you need a 'mental model' to hang your product on when designing a new product.  If you don't provide one, the user will revert to what they know and assume that the product works that way.  Big mistake by the seller and the consumer.  Internet retail has been a MASSIVE mental model mistake by the companies that provide services to businesses.  They never put up how their service works on their sites because they ASSUME that you get it.  That is because the services were originally developed by 20-something computer hipsters for their friends, never ever envisioning that it would take off like wildfire and that everyone's grandma and grandpa would be buying and selling on the internet and would need some more explanation to override their old bricks-and-mortar and paper catalog model.

So most of my customers aren't the 20-something hipster computer science nerds (surprised?).  I have spoken on the phone so many times to customer service at internet companies, begging them to put together a 'how it works' page so I can refer people to it.  No go.  They don't get it.

Why There Are 3rd Party Providers on the Internet - The Change from Internet 2.0 to 3.0

The internet could be the wild west of retail - any snake oil salesman putting up fake products, getting your address and credit card number and going to town selling that number to every scam artist and identity thief out there, racking up tons of charges before you even realize that the product isn't coming in the mail.

As the internet was developing, it was obvious to retailers it would be a way to reach customers.  The big guys - big catalog places like Land's End - treated it like a branch of their print catalogs and hired tons of computer scientist to build early custom sites for them to emulate their mailing catalog and allow you to enter your payment info.  This was highly successful and those companies have hundreds of IT professionals running their websites.

Then there were internet-only businesses that popped up.  The most visible one is Amazon.  They built their entire business around their concept of internet retail and are mostly a computer science company.

That left the businesses who were niche and small realizing that the internet might be the way to reach a small audience that is distributed around the world.  Companies that feed hobby interests are definitely those types of businesses.  They needed a way to reach their audiences to stay alive as brick and mortar was becoming more expensive.  But there was no way to build a website other than to hire a web designer or a small programming group to do it for you if you didn't know how to code.  There were some rudimentary shopping carts using databases that were developed that you could buy the code for.  Doing this cost about $50,000-$100,000 for a custom website and well, looked pretty bad when we revisit them today.  But outlaying that kind of money is a huge stretch for a little needlework shop.  So most didn't do it (and often went out of business in the next 10 years).  Those who did couldn't update often because they were still trying to get the value out of the first build.  Their sites would return to them the order and the credit card info of the customer and they would then process it on their in store processing system (a box in the store).  This had repercussions.  Bad guys realized that there were hundreds of thousands of these systems out there and in Internet 2.0 days, they could write small hacking programs to roam the internet and steal the credit card info when you purchased.

There was obviously a need for Internet 3.0 - a safe way to purchase online.

Internet 3.0 - The rise of Elon Musk

Most people don't know that Elon Musk was the founder of Paypal.  That was his first 'disruptive business'.  He realized that there was an enormous market for retail on the internet, yet unless you were Lands' End or Amazon, you couldn't afford to build the internet banking/encrypted interface.  So he decided to build it.  The other thing he realized was that to have a thriving internet retail business, the customers would need to have faith in the system.  That they would get what they bought and that their financial and personal information wouldn't be stolen.  One of the best ways to do that was to prevent the small retailers from getting that information in the first place.  That is the biggest failure of the mental model for my customers - they think I see their credit card.  Never do.

Paypal is a bank that processes financial transactions on the internet.  It is PERMISSIONS only.  That means that the seller puts out a link spelling out exactly the financial transaction the customer is giving permission for.  The link contains the item, the item cost, and shipping cost and where it is going.  The customer then gives permission for the 3rd party - Paypal - to collect those fund and ONLY those funds from the customer's bank or credit card.  Paypal then takes a fee from the funds and sends the rest to the seller.  Paypal retains the seller's bank information and a permission from them so they can remove the funds back from the seller if there is a dispute from the customer, protecting Paypal and the customer from snake oil salesmen.


So PayPal acts as a 1-stop locked wallet that the customer can use to process transactions with hundreds of sellers and only one company, Paypal, has the actual numbers to their credit card.  No one can access or charge the card without the direct permission of the customer for specific terms.  It also offers a dispute means for the customer, much like calling your credit card to dispute a charge.  But since the customer did actively authorize the charge, they are dealing as an arbiter between the seller and customer over the damage or non-shipment of a product.

In the case of subscriptions, the link contains the product or service, the amount of the installment payment, the date the payment will be taken and how many of the installments there will be.  The seller gives that link to the customer and the customer authorizes PayPal to act upon it only to the terms laid out.  There can be no changes at all to the terms.  The only change allowed is cancelation of the remaining payments by either the customer or seller.  If PayPal tries to act upon the installment payment and for some reason the customer's credit card or bank is unable to process, the subscription is 'suspended'.  But that is a misnomer - it is actually canceled as the seller has no way to restart it.  The two parties (customer and seller) have to act upon a new link with new terms to continue the payment plan.

Based on the financial model of Paypal, several companies pop-ed up to more completely service the small business retail industry.  Gone are the days where you need to hire a computer scientist to custom code a shop site for you.  You buy the services of a place like Shopify which provides the templates of typical shopping site pages, a database that you load your product text, prices, and pictures into, and an internet banking platform to process the credit card payments in a permissions only scheme like PayPal.  The retailer NEVER gets your financial info and we can't go back and make changes other than refunds.  They even will allow you to use PayPal as your payment method.  They charge the small company a yearly fee to have the pages up on their servers (that the small company has modified using their online interface), a transaction fee for processing each financial charge and then lots of addition fees monthly for other wiz-bang features.  One in particular that confuses my customers is the use of blue links in the text of the product for monthly subscriptions.  Those links take you directly to PayPal to set up a monthly subscription.  There is a module in Shopify that would allow me to make it part of the drop down menu.  But I would pay $40 a month to have it there and then also pay Shopify a 3.0 percentage for the transaction or PayPal a 2.5 percentage for the transaction.  So by passing it with the links embedded in the text saves me $40/month per class that I don't have to pass on to the customers in pricing.

So one complaint I hear all the time is 'I hate PayPal'.  I can understand that and it is often due to a variety of issues including confusing customer service (remember that you are talking to someone who understands the internet and you might be working off the mental model that I just crushed above - you are talking two different languages).  There is a mistaken perception that data can be easily stolen.  But remember that their entire business is built around encryption and not passing information onto the sellers.  But the one thing they can't control is your own computer, the spyware software that you clicked on yesterday that is passing on your keystrokes, and your use of super easy to break passwords on the multiple sites over and over so you don't need to remember them.  That is usually the way the data is stolen - the fraud walks in the front door with your password.

So I often get non-encrypted emails from people saying (1) they don't use PayPal because it isn't secure and so (2) here is their credit card number with the security code, their address, and in several cases - oh my god - I was handed a social security number.  My head explodes at that point and without reading the email I trash it and wipe my trash out immediately to try to help protect the person.  Email is not secure EVER for a credit card or social security number.  NEVER.  And now, since there is internet banking to be used, all insurance companies are pushing data breach policies on small companies to protect us from lawsuits over not protecting customers personal data.  So it is in my interest to never collect or store your financial information.  So I don't.  That means that while I could contract with VISA/Mastercard to directly take credit cards, I don't.  One reason is that the fee is huge because it would be only a few a year.  You would call me in the middle of the night from a foreign country to give it to me.  Then I would need to take a thousands of dollar policy on data security.  And I am pretty sure I can't even get decent terms on that because I use my laptop to do business and it goes everywhere with me, my business is in my home and I run a robot team in the house with 22 teens in a pretty fluid open door house.  So using a 'latest encryption' internet banking provider makes a ton of sense for both the customer and me, the seller.

More Services - Internet 3.0

Well Internet 3.0 with all its banking services and now its companies with templates to build your shop site integrated with internet banking is Fabulous.   You can make websites that look like your one person company is the work of 100 people.  That is good and bad.  The good of it is you look professional and it is easier than ever for the customer to understand your products and purchase them.

The bad list goes on and on.  First, the customer assumes you are Amazon and that as soon as they hit buy on a Saturday night from Austrailia your 24-hour warehouse got jolted into action and the robots are pulling the shelves into the picking bay and the boxes are filled and in an hour the box is off via UPS or USPS.

All the internet companies like Shopify assume that you might be at least larger than one person who needs to take vacation, have sick days or be out of town on other business, etc.  So they don't enable a means to change the emails that go back to the consumer to say 'hi, out of town for a few days'.  So, well, that causes problems when the customer doesn't get a response while you are sleeping to their email that they 'forgot something and need you to charge their card for it' and gets pretty annoyed by it.

The other thing that is a big problem for businesses like mine is the lack of flexible integration of functions.  Right now all the 3rd party companies assume that your business is straight retail and that is their business model to service.  But my business is a mix of retail AND teaching content that needs video, downloadable pages, blogging, email marketing for retail, email to small lists of students in a particular class, and a Q&A means.  There is no platform for all that under one interface.  So, as you see in the graphic, it is a patchwork of platforms.  I make it work - BUT because it is using so many companies - each one has their own database system controlling the personal information of the people using it.  That means that I have no control over user names and passwords and never know them in the first place.  So I can't answer these questions nor can I uniformly assign the same set across the platforms to make it easier on you!

In Internet 3.0 a complicated business needs to use many providers of services to do all the functions of the business.  This means that I can't provide uniformity across the business of email addresses, user names, passwords, and mailing addresses as each has their own privacy settings and databases for that information - some of which I can and can't access.  So mistakes of old emails, lost passwords and new addresses being missed abound at times!

To run the business I have no less than seven databases that information is stored in.  That is also complicated by some little hick-ups of internet banking.  You can't have more than one internet banking account per actual bank account number.  So the vast majority of you have allowed your husband to set that up and so I get your order information for classes in your husbands name and email.  But you want the emails to go to you, not surprisingly.  And some families share only one email address - and husbands often get annoyed with their wives buying supplies or getting so many class emails.  So guess what - they mark me as spam or unsubscribe from the email mailings - something I can't undo because of spam policies by Constant Contact.  And tons of you live now in two homes - sometimes across countries in some extreme snow-birding.  There aren't systems to take care of these things yet.  And to make it even more complicated - there are actually several pairs of name doppelgängers out there who love historic embroidery.  What I mean is that there are ladies with the same name but live in different cities.  Yes - blows the mind and causes a bit of confusion when the web guy is assigning passwords for a new class.

So this is what we are all living with for this complicated teaching/retail business in Internet 3.0.  I wonder if Internet 4.0 will ever come along with ways to integrate more of these things under one interface.  I am not sure it will.  But one can only hope!

I hope that cleared up a bit of the internet for you and why you get so exasperated by my apparent incompetence over your passwords or updates to your email addresses and why I can't 'just add that to your order' like people used to...

Tricia



Monday, January 28, 2019

Whitework Samplers Course - A Preview of Some Attractions

I am busy getting the Whitework Sampler course underway for March 1st and thought I would tell the world about one of the little extras in the class.  My courses are always full of context and places to explore if you want to know more than the stitch to do the project.  I envision the classes as what I would want if the class was offered through a university - references to keep exploring and growing as a person!

So to that end, I have been busy adding to one of three pinterest boards for the course.  Right now they are in secret mode for the public - so don't go looking for them!  You won't find them.  This board is an archive of embroidery pattern books that exploded in Europe during the Renaissance to transmit how-to and patterns to those interested.  There have been a few important studies in the last century of pattern books, one of the most extensive, Bibilographie der Modelbucher, was made by Arthur Lotz and published in 1963.  In German, this impressive text tracks the location and information about most of the surviving pattern books through their multiple printings and plagiarizing of content.   This was a great reference for researchers but hard to use as there were only a few patterns published in the book and traveling to see the volumes in rare book archives is hard.  But the advent of digital reproduction in the last decade of rare books has really taken off and it is possible to find around half of the books listed in Lotz online to view.  The Metropolitan Museum of Art has a large collection of them and had a great exhibit about a year ago and made great in roads into digitizing their vast collection for the exhibit.  But you still have to search to find them.

So I decided to make my research easier and share it with you as well.  I have collected the findable pattern books onto a very organized Pinterest board.   It is organized by the bibliographic reference in Lotz book and I have found additional copies not listed which have come to light in the last fifty years.  Currently there are 63 pattern books located on the board with over 2500 pages of patterns.  All take you back to the original materials on archive sites with full references.

Why should you care?  At its most basic - I have added 2500 patterns to the course.  I could never afford the graphic arts to add that many patterns for you to choose from for your reticella samplers.  One of the lessons will be all about how to print and resize the patterns for your use as well as how to interpret the woodblock patterns.  Steeping myself in them has made me recognize how they were drawing the stitches so I can teach you how to 'read' them as well.

Then there is the added context.  These were pattern books!  That means that there are samplers out there that used these books.  How can we match them up (yup, been doing it), are there notations in some of them that teach us about how they were using them?  yes, again some versions have the original owner using the graph paper, etc.  The frontispieces have valuable information on the working of the pieces, showing women doing the work.  And you can see the transmission of patterns across countries and times.

Through this I found that there is an important collection of patterns just here in a small library in Massachusetts - I hope to visit a particular pattern book where the user used it quite liberally to gain even more insight on the past.

If you are interested in the Whitework Sampler Course and learning more about the patterns and workings - read more info here.

Monday, January 14, 2019

Americana Week in NYC

Lot 140PROPERTY FROM THE ESTATES OF DUDLEY &
CONSTANCE GODFREY
Sotheby's Jan 20, 2019
This week every year in New York City is a group of auctions and shows that bring everyone who loves early American decorative arts to the city.  And since there is so little of American embroidery of this period - 17th century British embroidery is the items of choice for those who collect in the early American period.

This week's auctions at Sotheby's are especially rich with items.  But for me, it is bittersweet as well. A few years ago I was invited by a collector friend to come on a tour sponsored by Deerfield Museum  he was organizing that went through Chicago and Milwaukee - a hotbed of collectors of this period of needlework. Actually, he contacted me and 'told me' I was coming - I am so glad I went as it was the last time someone could meet these passionate people in the field with legendary collections.  Two of the collections we saw are up for auction and I learned two months ago that another of the collectors had just passed away.  It was so special to meet these passionate people and understand their collections and see them in the way they had loved them - instead of on a
white background.

Lot 1404 PROPERTY FROM THE ESTATES OF DUDLEY &
CONSTANCE GODFREY
SOTHEBY'S JAN 20, 2019
Constance Godfrey was the grandmother we all would have loved to have had!  Her custom built reproduction home was amazing and showed the love of the decorative arts she and her husband had. Constance was so gracious and loving, telling us about her pieces among a spread of cookies we munched upon.  She was particularly attracted to 17th century beaded pictures, baskets and caskets because the color was still so vibrant on them.  Her baskets aren't pictured elsewhere that I have ever seen and so it was a thrill to see each one!  Four of them are up for auction and for those who are basket lovers - you must see them.  She also had four wonderful caskets, one of which was an unknown match to two others -
one of which is in the MET and shows clues to workshop manufacture.

The Vogels gave us a wonderful lecture about their home's collection, which is particularly rich in ceramics but also decorated all throughout with 17th century British and American needlework.  A casket, mirror frame, sweet bags, and pictures rounded out the stunning effect.  A portion of their collection is also up for auction.  I understand they are still in good health!

Lot 1407 PROPERTY FROM THE ESTATES OF DUDLEY & 
CONSTANCE GODFREY
SOTHEBY'S JAN 20, 2019
Finally, while his collection was the most stunning and it is not up for auction, I must mention the passing of John Bryan as his life's work touches everyone of us through needlework and other areas.  John owned Crab Tree Farm, a gentleman's farm on the shores of Lake Michigan complete with a sprawling English manor inspired home with thematic follies dotting the landscape (the Tutor one was MAGIC!).  While John is well known for the houses on the site where he has preserved and restored the biggest collection of Gustov Stickley furniture and Arts and Crafts decorative arts, he is also known for his extensive collection of 17th century British embroidery.  John maintained a contemporary furniture workshop on site and was a patron of the arts in an extraordinary way.

John's business career was to build Sara Lee into the multinational conglomerate it is today.  In his
retirement, he turned his considerable business talents to other passions such as the building of Millennium Park in Chicago, raising almost half of the money to build it because of his core belief in public spaces.  In one of his gardens, he had the scaled down prototype of the 'silver bean' sculpture which was fun to walk around.  John was also instrumental in many civil rights movements in the Chicago area, joining with the black community to demand changes in access to many areas of white privilege.

Lot 860 THE COLLECTION OF ANNE H. & FREDERICK VOGEL III
Sotheby's Jan 19, 2019
In the needlework field, his influence will be felt for decades to come and you may not know of this man who begat things you will enjoy.  Not only sharing his pieces with me for research but commission of a book in process right now on 17th century needlework.  His love for the Art Institute of Chicago and board position had him recruit one of our favorite curators, Melinda Watt, from the MET to become an endowed textile curator at the Art Institute recently.   Melinda, recently ensconced was given the charge to reopen the textile department (very rich with 17th century textiles) to the public through exhibitions and access and over the next decade this will be a wonderful thing as part of John's legacy.

When we are in love with objects we need to also appreciate the people who become guardians of them as well as those who research and teach as they are all partners in keeping the historical legacies alive for the future.  I feel honored to have met so many of these guardians who shared with me their passions.

The Collection of Anne and Frederick Vogel III - Sotheby's Jan 19th, 2019
Lots:  802, 815, 831, 832, 833, 836, 858, 860, 885, 905, 923, 986, 994, 1055, 1056, 1058, 1065, 1066, 1069, 1091

Important Americana - Sotheby's Jan 20, 2019
Lots: 1401-1409


Friday, January 11, 2019

New Online Classes at Thistle Threads

While the blog has been doing giveaways and robot reports, I announced two new online classes to start during this winter.  The first is the Stuart Silk Purl Flower course - outlined today.

This is a sweet little piece about the size of a postcard and it explores how to use silk wrapped purls to get a variety of texture in your work.

The course is 3-months long and costs $210 for USA students.  During the three months, there will be extras such as the recording of the talk I gave at Winterthur on how these unique threads were made and the 17th century infrastructure around them.  Additionally historic pictures of silk wrapped purl in pieces will be shown and discussed and a presentation about all the tips and tricks to using them effectively.  There is also a small box of silk wrapped purls of other sizes for playing with.

The course starts on February 1st and is a great way to start the new year with a short and fun project and tons of learning!  It is also a good introductory project into how I teach online for those who have been tempted before by larger and long offerings.

Wednesday, January 9, 2019

12 Days After Christmas - Day 12

Today's giveaway is a set of three fibers from Rainbow Gallery.    The rules of engagement are:

1) Send me a email at tricia@alum.mit.edu

2) Put FLAIR in the subject line (so I can sort my entries).

3) Put your NAME and MAILING ADDRESS in the body of the message

4) Get the email to me by midnight EST of January 10th to be considered!

Tuesday, January 8, 2019

12 Days After Christmas - Day 11

Today's giveaway is a set of Colorwash painted Japanese silks  The rules of engagement are:

1) Send me a email at tricia@alum.mit.edu

2) Put COLORWASH in the subject line (so I can sort my entries).

3) Put your NAME and MAILING ADDRESS in the body of the message

4) Get the email to me by midnight EST of January 9th to be considered!


Monday, January 7, 2019

12 Days After Christmas - Day 10

Today's giveaway is a 2019 calendar.  The rules of engagement are:

1) Send me a email at tricia@alum.mit.edu

2) Put CALENDAR in the subject line (so I can sort my entries).

3) Put your NAME and MAILING ADDRESS in the body of the message

4) Get the email to me by midnight EST of January 8th to be considered!

Sunday, January 6, 2019

12 Days After Christmas - Day 9

Today's giveaway is19 skeins of cream needlepoint silk.  The rules of engagement are:

1) Send me a email at tricia@alum.mit.edu

2) Put CREAM NEEDLEPOINT in the subject line (so I can sort my entries).

3) Put your NAME and MAILING ADDRESS in the body of the message

4) Get the email to me by midnight EST of January 7th to be considered!


Saturday, January 5, 2019

12-Days After Christmas - Day 8

Today's giveaway is one of five bifold promoting the recent Witney Antiques exhibition.  I will send a different one to each person who wins.  The rules of engagement are:

1) Send me a email at tricia@alum.mit.edu

2) Put WITNEY in the subject line (so I can sort my entries).

3) Put your NAME and MAILING ADDRESS in the body of the message

4) Get the email to me by midnight EST of January 6th to be considered!

If you haven't gotten the new Witney catalog regarding this exhibition - it is great!  Best one in years with wonderful pieces and research on each.

Friday, January 4, 2019

12-Days After Christmas - Day 7

Today's giveaway is one of three cute sampler postcards.  The rules of engagement are:

1) Send me a email at tricia@alum.mit.edu

2) Put SAMPLER CARD in the subject line (so I can sort my entries).

3) Put your NAME and MAILING ADDRESS in the body of the message

4) Get the email to me by midnight EST of January 5th to be considered!

Thursday, January 3, 2019

12 Days After Christmas - Day 6

Today's giveaway is one of the August 2017 issues of Just Cross Stitch.  The rules of engagement are:

1) Send me a email at tricia@alum.mit.edu

2) Put JCS AUGUST 2017 in the subject line (so I can sort my entries).

3) Put your NAME and MAILING ADDRESS in the body of the message

4) Get the email to me by midnight EST of January 4th to be considered!

Wednesday, January 2, 2019

12-Days After Christmas - Day 5



Today's giveaway is one of two postcards of a stumpwork picture with great flowers on the side.  The rules of engagement are:

1) Send me a email at tricia@alum.mit.edu

2) Put STUMPWORK in the subject line (so I can sort my entries).

3) Put your NAME and MAILING ADDRESS in the body of the message

4) Get the email to me by midnight EST of January 3rd to be considered!

Tuesday, January 1, 2019

Well that was a day...

I am sure you noticed the lapse in my 12 Days of Christmas giveaways.  I will get one up tomorrow!

On the 31st, I was reading some Cabinet of Curiosities chats about the new year and someone said that they had a theory that as your New Year's Day goes, so does the year.  She was planning a calm day of stitching.  Right now all I can say is - GOSH I HOPE NOT!

I was up until 2am waiting for my newly adult child to get back home from fireworks drenched from rain and then woke up to a call from our credit card company about fraud very early in the morning.  So I have dragged around all day on fumes.  Then my computer wouldn't turn on and so couldn't get lessons out.  And as soon as I came downstairs I found my younger child (supposedly fresh with sleep) dragging around pronouncing that he didn't want to do robots anymore (sure sign of some breakdown of the system that was causing frustration).

It takes bent tweezers to insert the screw into the hole in three
moving items through a drilled access hole - and if you miss,
the screw gets lost in the arm and you have to disassemble
much to then shake it out.  38 on the arm.  This is the third
time it has been done in two weeks.  UGH.
So not knowing what fire to put out - I choose helping the random robot kid who slept here in his street clothes last night.  He had worked on the robot and helped us celebrate the new year and was the pitch hitter early this morning with the massive moving robot arm problem.  This one required putting super tiny special ordered screws into a movable stage system with tweezers while someone else used needle nose pliers to hold the lock nut.  Tedious and way beyond every child's frustration zone (kinda watch making level precision).  Before I could shower, the rest of the team showed up (we have a general open door policy but usually I have a clue they are coming).  Not today.  But they were the calvary and I needed to feed many of them...so a quick shower and off to the store.  Much work went on and the super duper frustrating task (there were 38 of those screws for tweezers) was shared by all the kids for the first time resulting in them all understanding my younger son's constant Oscar worthy 'fabulous frustration flops' from working on that part of the system.  And I will admit that almost every day this last week I thought at some point they 'wouldn't make it' with a working robot for this coming weekend competition.

A Fabulous Frustration Flop in progress after a full day of
work and still the thing has two problems crop up for every
one solved.
By the end of the night, he was working happily again and adding new 'features' to their to-do list.  It was a stunning turn around.  At one point they did some practice driving under competition conditions and crossed a goal they set 23 days ago when they decided to trash their robot and build another one from the ground up.  Realize that most teams work on one robot for 4 months.  There was much relief as they are going to be ready for their first qualifier this weekend and it only took pouring 12 hour days in with kids showing up every day except Christmas.  They had set the goal that day they failed massively at their scrimmage.  If they built a new robot design and it could do XYZ, we would order them team sweatshirts.  They were sooooo excited to cross that line and the whole room knew it.  So tomorrow they get ordered.

We have talked with many of our 'robot parents' over break as they had time to hang out while the work was going on.  We all agree that at this point in the kid's lives learning how to deal with frustration and stress you can't really walk away from is the most important thing they are all getting out of this.  They are learning that you have to stick to it.  We call it getting over the hump.  And over time, you start to believe that you can tackle and succeed at impossible tasks.  It just takes patience and perserverence.

This is really a heat gun to do shrink tubing.  But on break
they made snacks with it.
We spend time talking about emotions, making jokes, playing lots of basketball and football and today added some really inappropriate tool use to the mix (imagine a kid learning to do shrink insulation on wiring musing that this 700 degree hot air gun must make some awesome s'mores.... well heck yea!!).  Honestly there are days where I have no idea why they come back.  Really - cause I want to run out of the house and not come back myself!!  ha ha.

But they do.  It's crazy.

And apparently so will be this year if we go by today.

Back to the giveaways tomorrow!